tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post4389774236251911778..comments2024-02-05T02:04:41.661-05:00Comments on Nana Life: Catching Up... My Stressful WeekendHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177522637630437113noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-69284150378790112072016-11-09T13:11:27.573-05:002016-11-09T13:11:27.573-05:00Do what is best for your sweet Cosy. She is adora...Do what is best for your sweet Cosy. She is adorable and needs a family. Grandparents are a blessing in a childs life.Lauren Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02652047995042699159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-30554878769964863652016-11-07T10:23:50.870-05:002016-11-07T10:23:50.870-05:00Austin will always be in a tough spot trying to ke...Austin will always be in a tough spot trying to keep the peace with the mother of his child. He can only be the best dad he can be. He shouldn't give in to her demands. Austin will find that when he goes back to only having the baby on court appointed days, Mom will be looking for some alone time and may rethink how she handles things. These precious kids should not be used to get your own way. Hopefully mom will figure that out. I do not blame Austin one bit for not wanting her at the Holiday functions. She has no place there and in the long run, it will only cause major problems.<br />I'm hoping he gets the new job. I know that Austin is not responsible for the loss of the last job, but having aspergers makes being in the workforce difficult. Has he thought about applying for social security? It would help during times like this. He would still be allowed to work. In my state, they can make up to $1,000.00 a month before it affects their disability. <br />Wishing the best for all of you<br />Sherisljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02605768371187978762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-73897941629475594322016-11-07T07:18:36.487-05:002016-11-07T07:18:36.487-05:00Sadly, being on the side of the "mother"...Sadly, being on the side of the "mother" she will hands down dictate everything that happens with the baby. Just when you think things are getting non-stressful she will come out with her claws scratching again. I watched my brother go through this. His sons mother wanted to take the child out of state and no matter what , lawyers, courts, a year or so in the system, she still got everything including a whooping sum of child support and she was able to take the child out of state. And sadly , my brother lost everything for a while. Its a rough system. IF you can prove she is unfit you may have a shot. <br />I try to keep the peace between me and my sons "baby" mama..... its so damn hard. I stress, I buy way to much for the kids. And in the end ALL the time she reminds us all... she is the mama. Drives me nuts! <br />On the other note... With Cody and his wife not letting the baby wear his outfit. I WOULD be extremely hurt also. Been there , done that. Fashion sense? The baby is what 2 almost? They just don't get it... young parents..... they will one day. Let it ride. I've cut down so much from what I was doing. The first grandchild I BOUGHT EVERYTHING. DIAPERS, wipes, fill the bag, foods, out to eat, cute clothes , toys.....and always got it back in the face somehow. Second baby? Loves me for me. I don't have to buy her a ton of things. We can go in the store and she doesn't even look . I Love that. My relationship with her is just that. Sure if I want to buy her something I do. But its my terms and not the mothers or even my sons. Its up to me and baby girl still loves me! <br /><br />Chin up.<br />Sometimes there is a moment you have to say...<br />I take care of me. <br />RoseRose S.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02686054050781811224noreply@blogger.com