tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post3900858841748615740..comments2024-02-05T02:04:41.661-05:00Comments on Nana Life: the truth will set you freeHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177522637630437113noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-51536246914500772542009-03-29T18:09:00.000-04:002009-03-29T18:09:00.000-04:00A most hopeful entry. :) I think the hardest lesso...A most hopeful entry. :) I think the hardest lesson to learn is to realize that within ourselves we have all we need to be happy. I am glad that you are coming to realize this. I firmly believe that by giving God the reins you will be led to the right person at the right time. Until then enjoy your peace. Hugs.Estelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14093391384545252774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-37963827858949963372009-03-28T09:47:00.000-04:002009-03-28T09:47:00.000-04:00you are sounding so healthy!!! Not that I am the ...you are sounding so healthy!!! Not that I am the perfect person...but after my divorce for my first husband, I jumped right into a relationship and got soo hurt. after that hurt, I decided that I neded to learn to love being with me, love being me, loving loving me....love knowing that I could survive and live with just me and be happy with just me...and when I became happy that way, then ernie surprisingly stepped into my life when I was NOT looking! and here we are we have been together almost 22 years ( in May), 4 of them dating long distance and married 18...<BR/><BR/>You are so right...take you time and you will know when you are ready!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04176575455349872280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-12013190176565037662009-03-28T04:12:00.000-04:002009-03-28T04:12:00.000-04:00What a wonderful entry... I can see you are going ...What a wonderful entry... I can see you are going through all the normal and healthy emotions of divorce... I remember mine well enough to recognize much of what you wrote here as all good and part of the healing process. Hope the hives are gone and that you have a wonderful weekend... <BR/>Lisa in KentuckyLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06170878398413791861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-40980724564526682312009-03-28T01:14:00.000-04:002009-03-28T01:14:00.000-04:00"The truth that set me free was knowing that all o..."The truth that set me free was knowing that all of the things that I was looking for in Michael, I already had in myself."<BR/><BR/>Ah-Hah! Good! Now things get better and more interesting. <BR/><BR/>You've come far. Good. Now you can make choices more on your own terms AND when you're ready. <BR/><BR/>I would say that relationships and social situations reward us on a myriad of ways. <BR/><BR/>You clearly have merged from this as a more religious person. You have a more devout outlook. <BR/><BR/>Here is the question: what were you unable to do before because of your fears, that now, having strengthened your faithful connections, you're able to do?<BR/><BR/>Clearly understanding the interplay between terra firma and a more eternal world is part of that for you. Rock on. Study hard and as your reach new enlightenment, please let the rest of us know. <BR/><BR/>Are there worldly things that you'd like as well? <BR/><BR/>The divorce papers come at an interesting time too. Thought you look it, you're not 25 anymore. In some ways, you have fewer responsibilities than you had both 1 year and 10 years ago. <BR/><BR/>You'll have more time for you. More decisions that revolve around your own happiness. <BR/><BR/>I hope you will permit yourself to revel in that freedom a bit; both in terms of 'freedom from' and in terms of 'free to'.<BR/><BR/>As for intimate companionship, your ontology should drive your peacefulness! From the point of view of the fated, if your follow your instincts and the eternal golden braid of your faith, one would think the right person will come along at the right time... No?<BR/><BR/>It is among the places where your theology is truly liberating.<BR/><BR/>I say let freedom ring for you. Ring a bell, light a candle, read much, and live large.<BR/><BR/>That's what I say.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-61753872116613967532009-03-27T23:40:00.000-04:002009-03-27T23:40:00.000-04:00I think you're in a good place to be. No matter ho...I think you're in a good place to be. <BR/>No matter how much someone hurts us, it hurts to get the actual divorce papers.<BR/>You're doing great, keep it up.<BR/>Sherisljhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02605768371187978762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-11158686214125605592009-03-27T22:10:00.000-04:002009-03-27T22:10:00.000-04:00Maybe you should talk to someone in therapy to hel...Maybe you should talk to someone in therapy to help you sort out your feelings. Just a thought.redpoppy007@aol.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125340089039733932noreply@blogger.com