tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post6564095174098730435..comments2024-02-05T02:04:41.661-05:00Comments on Nana Life: fearHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177522637630437113noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-70334366833541169572010-11-16T21:14:48.716-05:002010-11-16T21:14:48.716-05:00I love Dad's comment!I love Dad's comment!Daniellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-87655223655493455562010-11-16T16:53:15.516-05:002010-11-16T16:53:15.516-05:00I, too, was in a relationship in the past with som...I, too, was in a relationship in the past with someone that my family (particularly my daughter) didn't really connect with. Looking back, that should have been a warning sign for me, since I'm very close to my family (particularly my daughter). <br /><br />Your family helped to bring you back to yourself. If you can't completely trust your own judgment yet, look to them for feedback, and see how a man meshes with your family before moving forward, and whether he shows respect for them and a desire to connect with them. I know I will be doing that if I ever date again.<br /><br />Hugs.Beckynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-68520883285551322692010-11-16T08:45:39.619-05:002010-11-16T08:45:39.619-05:00I believe your dad's comment is the best. I be...I believe your dad's comment is the best. I believe YOU have to be strong in yourself before you can "commit" to another relationship, and I am not saying you are not at all...you are! You have overcome so many obstacles with courage, and love, and GOD (not that He is last by any means). Some fear is good....but don't let it overcome you. That is exactly how you grow.moshell's lilbit of spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12704725032676443762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-25002002925228210332010-11-16T08:29:40.026-05:002010-11-16T08:29:40.026-05:00Heather,
First, congratulations on losing the wei...Heather,<br /><br />First, congratulations on losing the weight. You seem very committed to keeping it off and with all that wierd stuff you eat I have no idea how you'd ever gain it back! ;)<br /><br />Secondly, I'm not sure exactly what you've been through in previous relationships, but from what I've gathered in the short time that I've known you, is that you're a strong woman. Whatever lessons you've learned, you've learned because you've lived them. You will not go through the same troubles you went through in previous relationships, because you've obviously grown and realized what you deserve. I know a thing or two about taking a risk for love and I highly recommend it! Sometimes you just have to take that leap of faith. There's nothing saying you won't fall flat on your face, but there's also nothing saying you won't be the happiest you've ever been. Just stay true to yourself. <br /><br />I also wanted to make a little suggestion. When I had gone through a rough breakup (a few years before I met Zouhair) I was having a real hard time finding myself. I felt a prisoner to my emotions and I needed something to feel strong again, within myself. I decided to go skydiving. I was scared out of my mind, but I assure you once I jumped out of that airplane, I found myself again. I realized if I could jump out of a plane at 15,000 feet I could do anything. I found a confidence within myself I had lost for a long time. If you can, try to do something like this. A physical thing that the thought of scares you. If you can overcome it, you can overcome anything!Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08773455487003807611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-78512361900387998652010-11-16T06:24:16.919-05:002010-11-16T06:24:16.919-05:00Just take one day at a time. You are a strong, cou...Just take one day at a time. You are a strong, courageous woman. Like you said, when you have no expectations, you'll have less disappointments. Keep true to yourself. Be strong. You'll do fine. <br /><br />Hugs,<br /><br />DianaDianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14968237156365326598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-36067799773334219332010-11-16T06:23:54.614-05:002010-11-16T06:23:54.614-05:00Just take one day at a time. You are a strong, cou...Just take one day at a time. You are a strong, courageous woman. Like you said, when you have no expectations, you'll have less disappointments. Keep true to yourself. Be strong. You'll do fine. <br /><br />Hugs,<br /><br />DianaDianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14968237156365326598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-27254718088739792812010-11-16T04:29:01.108-05:002010-11-16T04:29:01.108-05:00Some things to think through:
(1)Is he as committe...Some things to think through:<br />(1)Is he as committed to God as you are?<br />(2)Is he willing to honor you by not making demands prematurely?<br />(3)Will he support you emotionally in your continuing struggle with the hurt Darby inflicted?<br />(4)Will he stay the course even if you aren't perfect or if you have health problems.<br /><br />Strong relationships are formed when the spirit, soul and body are compatible. Unequal "yoking" usually does not work. Think of the following words for love:<br />Agape'- God's love that humans can only possess when they know God<br />Phileo - friendship and caring <br />Eros - physical love that symbolizes the two becoming one.<br /><br />When a relationship grows in that manner, the result is typically strong. <br /><br />Love ya!<br /><br />PopJim Ganthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08847139044849946151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-70278805107332457792010-11-16T00:00:45.665-05:002010-11-16T00:00:45.665-05:00Oh .... Heather! I'm sending you a PM on FB w...Oh .... Heather! I'm sending you a PM on FB with my phone # so you can call me. I'll give you at least 10 reasons (maybe more) why that will never happen. C'mon girl ... YOU are fine. You've walked away from all that and learned from it. You are in a wonderful place (geographically, mentally and spiritually) ... not necessarily in that order.<br /><br />Goodness, Heather. Just pray and trust. You are fine!! Stop worrying.<br /><br />~pattyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com