tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post9139065631169162101..comments2024-02-05T02:04:41.661-05:00Comments on Nana Life: long thursday rambling postHeatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16177522637630437113noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-14016752943749130212009-01-10T19:37:00.000-05:002009-01-10T19:37:00.000-05:00I am glad that you have "come out of the closet" s...I am glad that you have "come out of the closet" so to speak, about you and Dean. It needed to be out there. It needed to be spoken. <BR/><BR/>If it HURTS the other parties involded, well, tough titties. THEY didn't care who THEY were hurting when they started THEIR "relationship." <BR/><BR/>It's not like you and Dean have anything more going on than two wounded victims trying to reach out to each other in the midde of the battlefield, grabbing each others wounds and wrapping them up as tight as you can, while watching and waiting to see who "bleeds out" first. Not a fun way to spend the day, but in the end, if it's all you got, then it's quite all right! <BR/><BR/>You do what you gotta do to hold yourself together Heather. If this is the way, then so be it. Don't let ANYONE tell you how to survive this war. Don't let anyone tell you that you are fighting it the wrong way! There is no right or wrong way in battle. It's your damn war!! And you gotta fight it the way you need to fight it...one battle at a time. <BR/><BR/>NO ONE will be able to fight this war for you. Don't let peope tell you they CAN. Only people who have fought the same war can tell you how hard it is...but they will NEVER be able to match you battle for battle. <BR/><BR/>Dean is fighting his OWN battles. You may be fighting the same WAR, but you are both fighting different BATTLES. <BR/><BR/>Yeah, others have fought the same WAR, but NO ONE has fught the same battles. NO ONE. So don't let ANY ONE TELL YOU THAT THEY HAVE! <BR/><BR/>I could write a book on this...but I won't. All I will say is that you just continue to do what you need to do to remain SANE through all of this. If it's confiding in Dean, if it's loving Barry, if it's befriending the pocket mexican? then do it. But keep true to YOURSELF. Always keep true to YOU.Peaceful Epiphanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00014111444876850104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-87748563788819237412009-01-09T10:40:00.000-05:002009-01-09T10:40:00.000-05:00I no you have come along why Heather You are very...I no you have come along why Heather You are very different from the women who post before You seem to have alot more contentment I wish you all the love and Blessings your heart can handle and I think it is great that you are friends with the womens x But be careful cause it can keep you in that drama and you really want to pull your self away from all that Really letting go of it all is a beautiful release I no you might not be ready for that yet But remember Heather you are so worth loving. My brother reads your blog and he is taken away bye you He feels you are strong and full of love and said he would love to meet a women like you so belive me there are men who can and will love you But you cant move forward till you let go of the past Love you take care so glad you are having many good days and I wish for many more for you God Bless Kat:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-84888629385615807482009-01-09T09:42:00.000-05:002009-01-09T09:42:00.000-05:00The most interesting thing about your marriage is ...The most interesting thing about your marriage is how can MJD go about living with another woman, showing her affection and loving her, when he wouldn't do that to his own wife! Why were you so unlovable (his opinion)? He never seemed like much of a talker, and maybe you had to use his actions to indicate his feeling, "actions speak louder than words". Ironic that you and the other injured spouse would forge a relationship...it must be so painful to hear about "their" life. You are exactly where you need to be. Take care...Myrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04711728055250855435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-20619478904343596072009-01-09T07:52:00.000-05:002009-01-09T07:52:00.000-05:00always love your honesty! i hope you have a great ...always love your honesty! i hope you have a great friday! hugs*Tracy*https://www.blogger.com/profile/01237935098448989031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-51192649516384799212009-01-09T02:38:00.000-05:002009-01-09T02:38:00.000-05:00Hmmm... Heather, Pill Popper. No. Next: Square...Hmmm... Heather, Pill Popper. No. <BR/><BR/>Next: Square Dancing and Contra Dancing are fun. I encourage them.<BR/><BR/>Next: Re the hurt... Ever heard the song "The Weight"? It sounds as though your cheating spouses, those insane louses, desecrating their houses... (sorry about that) put the weight right on you. <BR/><BR/>Do your best to let it go. Be glad you and yours got out in one piece. <BR/><BR/>As for dinner, you honey child, may be in more desperate need of Trader Joe's than anyone else I know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-32575553120799621122009-01-08T23:11:00.000-05:002009-01-08T23:11:00.000-05:00Aren't you glad we had square-dancing in 7th grade...Aren't you glad we had square-dancing in 7th grade during PE now? You make sure you take pictures Saturday night!<BR/><BR/>Do you remember the pastor who married Doug and me? Brother Prince . . . he passed away in 1996 . . . he often quoted Ryan saying that "God is omnipotent" . . . he loved it and that it came from a 3-year-old. Anyway, he died in 1996 after a long struggle with cancer and Lyme Disease. One of the best men I have ever met and I was so glad that he was part of my life. His wife, Mrs. Prince, was just a saint and she was my "adopted" grandmother. I didn't live close to my own grandmothers, but she didn't live too far from me and she treated me as if I was her own grandchild. Anyway (and I know this is rambling, but I'm watching the game, too), Mrs. Prince passed away in June of 2007. She was such a sweet, sweet, soul. She grieved Bro. Prince's passing for the entire 10 1/2 years it took her to join him . . . I mean, she was just so sad, tears would form in her eyes when she would talk about him . . . they had such good memories together and she missed him so. She truly was a pastor's wife and ministered to any congregation he pastored just as much as he ever did. And she so could not wait to join him in eternity. She wasn't suicidal by any means, and she didn't wish for her own death, but she grieved him so and felt so lonely without him there with her . . . even with her five children and tons of grandchildren there. She said she never could get used to not having him there with her. They had been married for over 50 years. Sounds so much like your client.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2565064927448520692.post-53486788838724725832009-01-08T22:53:00.000-05:002009-01-08T22:53:00.000-05:00interesting post. I hope I have not offended you w...interesting post. I hope I have not offended you with anything I have said. I don't think you were talking to me, but if I am, I am sorry. <BR/>interesting about you and Dean. I wonder what "SHE" would say to you now if confronted? <BR/>pillpopper huh? whatever. People do seem to point fingers at others instead of looking at their own actions. <BR/>take care and enjoy whatever you are getting to eat....<BR/>tinaTina of Moon Shinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09924211569164172510noreply@blogger.com